A few weeks ago my mother in law’s cousin Beth died after a long illness. The burial was to be in her home town about a 3 hour drive from us. As my father in law, Frank, was now confined to wheel chair, I offered to drive them both to the funeral. On the morning we were to leave, Frank decided he did not feel up to the long drive there and back in one day. As I had to be back as work the next day it was decided that only
