I made a discovery last summer that changed the way I think about my fourteen year old son… A few months back I was cleaning up the house and doing some laundry while the kids were out. I opened the door to my son’s room and noticed that there were piles of dirty clothes all over the floor, which didn’t surprise me, but it was a little frustrating because I’d asked him to clean up several times the day before. I started picking up his dirty clothes and throwing them in a pile in the middle of the floor, and...
